时候， 友谊就像是盛开的鲜花， 展现在你面前， 当你可悲时，友谊是一剂安慰 ; 如果您遇到了麻烦，朋友们将会出现并帮你解除困难，如果 你有一个难办的事，您可以找朋友获得帮助。 Every one need friends, and if you fail to make friends, you should examine yourself and see if there is something wrong with your personality. Maybe you have social faults such snobbishness, talkativeness and using slang etc. All of that will drive your new acquaintances. Whatever your social faults may be, look at them honestly and make real effort to correct them. 每个人都需要朋友， 如果你不能交到朋友， 就该反省自己， 看是否的你的个性有什么问题。 或许你有些在社交上应该避讳的缺点：譬如势力、 饶舌、 说脏患卜欺话等等。 这些都会妨碍你结交 新朋友。无论你有什么社交缺点，都应该正视它们，并努力改正。 However , what ’ s actual difficult is that friendship is easier made than kept.There are several important elements necessary to maintain a good friendship. 然而， 真正困难的是： 友谊容易得到却不易保持。 要想维持友谊以下几方面是必不可少的 了 . Listen .The ability to really listen to another is a cornerstone of good friendship.It helps you to understand your friend and his/her feelings,as well as shows that you really care. 善于倾听。倾听是友谊的基石 , 它有助于你更好的了解你的朋友同时又表示你在关心你的 朋友。 Spend quality time with your friend .No relationship can be satisfying without quality time spend together .Make time for your friend,schedule get together . 与朋友葛缘相聚。没相聚就没友谊。所以抽点时间与朋友一起聚聚 Be forgiving. There is not even one person in the world who is perfect.You know your own shortcomings,so don't expect perfection from others.I'm not saying that you should always accept a wrong doing on your friend's part.Tellthem when you didn't like something and be always ready to make up afterward.Don't hold grudges in your heart.It will help your friend to be long-suffering with you as well. 宽容。人无完人 , 任何人抓航都有自己的缺点，所以就不要要求别人完美。我并不是叫你一味 的纵容朋友的错误， 相反你应该明确的告诉你的朋友， 不要藏在心底， 这对你和你们自己的 友谊都是有好处的 Admit your faults .In every friendship there will be conflict sooner or later .When it comes ， often the wrong is on both sides Admit your wrongs instead of just pointing out the wrongs of another person involved.This will help you both to keep the line of communication open and strengthen your friendship 勇于承认自己的错误 . 朋友相处迟早都会产生冲突的 , 但产生误会和冲突时双方都是有责 任的我认为勇于承认自己的过错比追究责任更有助于解决问题和增进友谊 In short, when we have established friendship, we ought to cherish and treasure it by means of words and deeds. Only thus, can we develop real friendship and keep the sacred lamp of friendship burning all our life. 简言之，建立了友谊之后，要通过言语和行动来珍惜友谊，像爱护宝物一样爱惜友谊。 只 有这样，才能发展真正的友谊，让神圣的友谊之灯照亮我们一生。