First of all,I will trust my children,let them know I love them,let them know that I care about them very much,let them feel warm and safety. Secondly,I will make conversations with children often.Acturally, there's no genaration gap between parents and children,if you always exchange your opion with your children. Third,if my childern want to keep his or her own secrets,want to do something and don't want to tell me