哪本外国书籍里提到用钱奖励孩子的教育方式,写英语作文要用,感谢感谢
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After a lot of memories of my childhood, sits may remember, if the exam to get good grades, he can get some from parents reward-may be a transformers, or a Kentucky. It is also from that era begins, some Chinese economic condition of the family, allow parents to do so. But now, with the continuous development of science and technology, with money reward children's progress this now is becoming more and more common, is this why? Some parents think is of course to children some role in promoting have power, the starting point is good, parents will pocket money as education for children or transfer a cultural significance of the important means, or as a reward, or as a kind of an expression of love, or as a result of return. "Money reward law" really can enhance the enthusiasm of child labor, more important is to let the children know that make money not easy, encourage them to earn returns through labor, this understandable. But, the simple "money reward" method only receive short-term effects, easy to make the child becomes the utility, "obsessed". In addition, some children still doesn't know how to save money, and possible disorderly the money. Therefore, in the long run, simple to meet and incentive the child with money, for the development of children is unfavorable. In fact, "money reward law" is just a kind of auxiliary of the education method, the children were adults must, appreciation and the praise the psychological needs, meet this need, can be a hug, a genuine praise, a small gift, the same can achieve good effect. DE west in Stanford study results: students were divided into two groups painting, a group of can get some reward, for example a Venus etc., another group but no reward. A few weeks later, through the one-way observation found no reward of the students at ordinary times like drawing, and those who still get the award students but not how to draw-no incentive to take, why painting? So I think children access to money, sooner or later, and avoid earlier than a child's money consciousness. In order to avoid the child to spending money or too "greed" money. Parents should be early in the understanding of the money for children have the right guidance, help children establish correct function.