When children encounter difficulties, it is recommended to solve the problem from the following aspects Children growing up, there will always encounter a variety of complex, requiring him to solve problems. At this point, we do not worry, it should help children to solve problems together. To ask the children: "What happened?" Sometimes, children hurried ran, we did not find out their own problems, would you solve. At this point, you should not immediately provide an answer to the children, but to their own problems and then repeat it again, for example, ask them: "how, what is the problem?" Or:. "What is the situation, where confuse the" This will cause the child to calm down, just recall problems encountered, but also help to help them organize your thoughts, so maybe you do not help, they can solve the problem. Tell your child not to worry When children encounter problems, often they appeared very agitated, very intense emotions, then, we first do not worry, so our influence in, the child might calm down. At the same time, but also to comfort their children, so they do not worry, we should actively find solutions. When the strong emotions of a person, it is often very easy impulsive, others say he will not listen. Until he calm down, it may calm thinking. So if we want the child to be able to hear our views into account, we will need to soothe their emotions, let their emotions to calm down. To guide their children to think When the children calm down and to guide their children to think. Although the child may rush to let you help them, however, the correct way is to encourage them to think, only after they think, we can provide answers or help.